If something feels wrong, trust that feeling
When a loved one is in the care of others — whether in a nursing home, assisted living facility, group home, or under the supervision of an in-home caregiver — families rely on those institutions and individuals to provide safe, attentive, and dignified care. Unfortunately, that trust is sometimes broken.
Abuse and neglect are not always obvious. Injuries may be hidden or explained away. Behavioral changes may be dismissed as part of aging or illness. Facilities may be quick to reassure you that everything is fine. But you know your loved one — and if something feels off, it’s worth taking seriously.
Below are some of the most common warning signs. If you recognize any of these, we encourage you to contact us for a free, confidential consultation.
Physical Signs
Physical signs of abuse or neglect are sometimes visible, but not always. Watch for:
- Unexplained bruises, cuts, or burns — especially in unusual locations or in various stages of healing
- Bedsores (pressure ulcers) — particularly Stage II or higher, which are often preventable with proper care
- Sudden or significant weight loss — which may indicate malnourishment or dehydration
- Poor hygiene — unwashed hair, body odor, soiled clothing or bedding, or overgrown nails
- Untreated wounds or infections — injuries that have gone unaddressed or appear to be worsening
- Fractures or broken bones — especially in the absence of a clear or credible explanation
- Signs of dehydration — dry mouth, sunken eyes, confusion, or dark urine
Behavioral and Emotional Signs
Changes in mood or behavior can be just as telling as physical symptoms:
- Withdrawal or unusual quietness — particularly around specific caregivers or staff members
- Increased anxiety, fearfulness, or agitation — especially in settings where a person previously felt comfortable
- Depression or sudden emotional changes — including tearfulness, hopelessness, or loss of interest in activities
- Confusion or disorientation — that seems out of proportion to an existing condition, or that appears suddenly
- Reluctance to speak in front of caregivers — or distress when caregivers are nearby
Neglect by a Care Facility or Caregiver
Neglect occurs when a caregiver or institution fails to provide the basic care a person needs and is entitled to receive. Signs that neglect may be occurring include:
- Residents left in soiled clothing or bedding for extended periods
- Failure to reposition bedridden residents, leading to pressure sores
- Inadequate supervision resulting in falls or wandering
- Missed medications or improper medication management
- Lack of assistance with eating or drinking for those who need it
- Unsafe or unsanitary living conditions
- Failure to notify family members of accidents, incidents, or changes in condition
Financial Exploitation
Financial abuse is one of the most underreported forms of elder and dependent adult abuse. Warning signs include:
- Unexplained withdrawals or changes in bank account activity
- Missing money, valuables, or personal belongings
- Sudden changes to a will, trust, power of attorney, or beneficiary designations
- Unpaid bills despite adequate financial resources
- A caregiver or new acquaintance showing unusual interest in your loved one’s finances
- Your loved one appearing confused about or unaware of recent financial transactions
Signs of Abuse in Children or Dependent Adults in Institutional Care
Abuse and neglect are not limited to the elderly. Children in foster care, schools, or other supervised settings — and dependent adults in group homes or other facilities — can also be victims. Additional warning signs in these populations include:
- Unexplained physical injuries or complaints of pain
- Regressive behaviors such as bedwetting, thumb-sucking, or clinging
- Age-inappropriate sexual knowledge or behavior
- Fear of going to school, a caregiver’s home, or a particular location
- Sudden changes in academic performance or social behavior
- Withdrawal from friends, family, or activities they previously enjoyed
What to Do If You Suspect Abuse or Neglect
If you believe someone is in immediate danger, call 911.
For non-emergency situations, report suspected abuse to the appropriate agency based on where your loved one lives or receives care:
- If the abuse or neglect occurred in a hospital or skilled nursing facility: Report to the California Department of Public Health (CDPH). 📞 (800) 236-9747 cdph.ca.gov
- If the abuse or neglect occurred in a residential care facility: Report to the California Department of Social Services (CDSS). 📞 (844) 538-8766 cdss.ca.gov
- If the abuse or neglect occurred at home or in the community: Contact California Adult Protective Services (APS) at 1-833-401-0832.
You can also contact Forbes-Roberts Law directly. We can help you assess the situation, understand your legal options, and determine the most effective next steps — all at no cost and with no obligation. The first conversation is free. So is everything after it — unless we recover compensation for you and your family. You have nothing to lose by calling us.
Call us at (831) 515-7007 or submit a Free Case Evaluation online.
We serve clients throughout California, in English and Spanish.
If Something Feels Wrong, It Probably Is.
Trust your instincts. Then call us.Families often sense that something is wrong before they can prove it. You don’t need all the answers before reaching out — that’s what we’re here for. We’ll listen to what you’ve observed, help you understand whether it may constitute abuse or neglect, and tell you honestly what your options are. The consultation is free, confidential, and carries no obligation.
